Being loved by someone or love someone, both are the most beautiful feelings in this world, that’s what most people say and believes. I have heard people saying that ‘I can’t live without him/her’…..blah blah blah goes on and on but my question is how???? Seriously how??? Though, Here I am not including bloodline(family members) and Almighty ofcourse!

Don’t you think people are confused and mistakenly considering responsibilities, care, condition, no way out, family pressure, with love and the worst part is that they are enjoying it like that knowingly or unknowingly. “Love” giving more than you should creates a huge problem, always!

Don’t consider me an evil non-loving girl but come on we are wasting all the love in the extremely wrong direction and how can you give someone, something so much that you, yourself lack off.

For example If you are full of some specific knowledge, wisdom then only you are capable of passing it on or else just pretending won’t help at all, in the same way before giving love on sale with a block letter saying ‘buy 1 get zillion free’ love yourself, please….!   

Love your raw-self as much as you can because no one, I repeat no one can do that for you apart from your own self. Self-love is the most important thing and a priceless gift you can give it to yourself. This is so silly that when we grow up as so-called social animals,Self-love transfers into self-ignorance which later turns into selfless in each term and condition.

Loving your raw-self, flaw-one, imperfect one, out of box one, carefree one, desire-one, dreamful one, selfish one, lust one. The one which the world defined as “RED ZONE-not allow”. Just love every inch of your true-self, unfiltered-one at every given stage of life. It takes a great courage to go back to start loving yourself, but worth a try and once you get used to it, love giving becomes so easy in a real sense, you will become more open to love, life,  thought process and the real meaning of your existence.

There are a lot of humans ready to pull you down at every microsecond of your life, you don’t need one more you to do that. When the entire world is against you and you are the only one standing strong for your own self that matters a universe in that situation and can completely turn the table upside down. Here the mantra is not just loving yourself but knowing the real you, inside-out and accepting that in all way,so here i am introducing my module of  ‘four-step self love method’ which is as simple and as important as it seems- 

1. Know yourself  “raw-self”.
2. Standing tall with who you are.
3. Improve yourself,only if you feel like.
4. Love the entire process and fall in love with yourself even more.

The step is hell hard at the beginning, I do agree but please do give it a try for yourself, enough for others, it’s time to stop and give yourself a try, a solid try.

Love is sometimes big, sometimes small, sometimes infinite, sometimes finite, sometimes with boundaries, sometimes without boundaries, sometimes with sense, sometimes without sense, sometimes with lust, sometimes without lust, sometimes wanted, sometimes unwanted, sometimes real, sometimes fake, sometimes from heart, sometimes without heart, sometimes for the world, sometimes for yourself, sometimes innocent one, sometimes sharp one, and the list goes on and on – “different shades of love”. Reflection of love will make the surrounding area foggy with love and maybe sometimes rain of love, and everything will fall into perfect places.

The choice lies in your hand which love you choose, which one you get into and for self -love, the only thing that matters is “YOU” and only “YOU”. it’s time you should get some “self-face” on and love the hell out of yourself because the most important human in your life in and after is “YOU” and only “YOU”