So I asked a few people if they would love to read about teen love and I got a positive result. So here I give you my blog post on TEEN LOVE
The big question most of us ask is is it okay to date as a teen?. Well I also don’t know the real answer to that. And the truth is no one does. We many times get many diverse opinions from all sources but we cant know which is correct and which is not. You just choose one that fits you.
Personally i think its okay to date anytime you feel you are okay. That means even as a teen its still okay.
Although you will not end up marrying your highschool sweetheart atleast you will be acquainted with valuable information about a relationship. For example you will learn how to appreciate your partner, how to treat them , to care for their emotions and how to handle a relationship generally.
It wont hurt having a shoulder to cry on when things go wrong. And it will be cool if you, being a teen you have someone of your age to confide with. Someone who enjoys your company and thinks you are unique . Someone to talk to about how bad the exam was and how afraid you are of certain things.
Yes, you might get hurt along the way but on the positive side, is, you will get used to such scenarios because this world aint your mama’s or papa’s . You will get hurt many times so why not get used to it.
The thing is just to love wholly and be responsible We all don’t know what the future holds for us. But just imagine if you and your babe stay together till you grey. Well am not giving any hopes but just imagine that.
Cute right ?
You can just choose your teen lover wisely. And who knows, it might last longer than you really think but it also can be short lived (higher chances) .The big problem in today’s society is people , even adults don’t know the difference between love and lust. Such a pity .
I understand that most people worry about grades, But does it mean that everyone who is at the university never had a high school love. Some of us prefer not to date because of personal reasons . That’s still okay and I feel nobody should pressure anyone. Its 21st century and we all have a right to opinion. Don’t pressure your peer to indulge in some sort of relationship. Dating should be out of free will not because you “must” but because you want to.
Lastly if you are a teen and you decide to date or you are dating already just respect your other and be responsible
Lastly all I would say is:-
1.we are too young to be sad
2.you only live once
3. Love is beautiful but dont just choose one who is beautiful but one who makes your world beautiful